THE
FORM OF SOLEMNIZATION OF MATRIMONY
FROM THE BOOK OF COMMON PRAYER
At
the day and time appointed for Solemni-
zation of Matrimony, the Persons
to be married shall come into the
body of the Church, or shall be
ready in some proper house, with
their friends and neighbors; and
there standing together, the Man
on the right hand, and the Woman
on the left, the Minister shall
say,
"Dearly
beloved, we are gathered together
here in the sight of God, and in
the face of this company, to join
together this Man and this Woman
in holy Matrimony; which is an honourable
estate, instituted of God, signifying
unto us the mystical union that
is betwixt Christ and his Church:
which holy estate Christ adorned
and beautified with his presence
and first miracle that he wrought
in Cana of Galilee, and is commended
of Saint Paul to be honourable among
all men: and therefore is not by
any to be entered into unadvisedly
or lightly; but reverently, discreetly,
advisedly, soberly, and in the fear
of God. Into this holy estate these
two persons present come now to
be joined. If any man can show just
cause, why they may not lawfully
be joined together, let him now
speak, or else hereafter for ever
hold his peace."
And
also speaking unto the Persons who
are
to
be married, he shall say,
"I
REQUIRE and charge you both, as
ye will answer at the dreadful day
of judgment when the secrets of
all hearts shall be disclosed, that
if either of you know any impediment,
why ye may not be lawfully joined
together in Matrimony, ye do now
confess it. For be ye well assured,
that if any persons are joined together
other than as God's Word doth allow,
their marriage is not lawful."
The
Minister, if he shall have reason
to doubt of the lawfulness of the
proposed Marriage, may demand sufficient
surety for his indemnification:
but if no impediment shall be alleged,
or suspected, the Minster shall
say to the Man,
"JOHN
Wilt thou have this Woman to thy
wedded wife, to live together after
God's ordinance in the holy estate
of Matrimony? Wilt thou love her,
comfort her, honour, and keep her
in sickness and in health; and,
forsaking all others, keep thee
only unto her, so long as ye both
shall live?"
The
Man shall answer,
"I
will."
Then
shall the Minster say unto the Woman,
"JANE
Wilt thou have this Man to thy wedded
husband, to live together after
God's ordinance in the holy estate
of Matrimony? Wilt thou love him,
comfort him, honour, and keep him
in sickness and in health; and,
forsaking all others, keep thee
only unto him, so long as ye both
shall live?"
The
Woman shall answer,
"I
will."
Then
shall the Minister say,
"Who
giveth this Woman to be married
to this Man?"
Then
shall they give their troth to each
other in this manner. The Minister,
receiving the Woman at her father's
or friend's hands, shall cause the
Man with his right hand to take
the Woman by her right hand, and
to say after him as followeth.
"I,
John take thee, Jane to my wedded
Wife, to have and to hold from this
day forward, for better for worse,
for richer for poorer, in sickness
and in health, to love and to cherish,
till death us do part, according
to God's holy ordinance; and thereto
I plight thee my troth."
Then
shall they loose their hands; and
the Woman with her right hand taking
the Man by his right hand, shall
likewise say after the
Minister,
"I, Jane take thee, John to
my wedded Husband, to have and to
hold from this day forward, for
better for worse, for richer for
poorer, in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, till death
us do part, according to God's holy
ordinance; and thereto I give thee
my troth."
Then
shall they again loose their hands;
and the Man shall give unto the
Woman a Ring in this wise: the Minister
taking the ring shall deliver it
unto the Man, to put it upon the
fourth finger of the Woman's left
hand. And the Man holding the Ring
there, and taught by the Minister,
shall say,
"WITH
this Ring I thee wed: In the Name
of the Father, and of the Son, and
of the Holy Ghost. Amen."
And,
before delivering the Ring to the
Man, the Minister may say as followeth,
"BLESS,
O Lord, this Ring, that he who gives
it and she who wears it may abide
in thy peace, and continue in they
favour, unto their life's end; through
Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen."
Then,
the Man, leaving the Ring upon the
fourth finger of the Woman's left
hand, the Minister shall say,
"Let
us pray."
Then
shall the Minister and People, still
standing, say the Lord's Prayer.
"OUR
Father, who art in heaven, Hallowed
be thy Name. Thy Kingdom come. Thy
will be done, On Earth as it is
in heaven. Give us this day our
daily bread. And forgive us our
trespasses, As we forgive those
who trespass against us. And lead
us not into temptation, But deliver
us from evil. For thine is the kingdom,
and the power, and the glory, for
ever and ever. Amen."
Then
shall the Minister add,
"O
ETERNAL God, Creator and Preserver
of all mankind, Giver of all spiritual
grace, the Author of everlasting
life; Send thy blessing upon these
thy servants, this Man and this
Woman, whom we bless in thy Name;
that they, living faithfully together,
may surely perform and keep the
vow and covenant betwixt them made,
(whereof this Ring given and received
is a token and pledge,) and may
ever remain in perfect love and
peace together, and live according
to thy laws; through Jesus Christ
our Lord. Amen."
Then the Minister may add,
"O
GOD, who hast so consecrated the
state of Matrimony that in it is
rep resented the spiritual marriage
and unity betwixt Christ and his
Church; Look mercifully upon these
thy servants, that they may love,
honour, and cherish each other,
and so live together in faithfulness
and patience, in wisdom and true
godliness, that their home may be
a haven of blessing and of peace;
through the same Jesus Christ our
Lord, who liveth and reigneth with
thee and the Holy Spirit ever, one
God, world without end. Amen."
Then shall the Minister join their
right hands together, and say,
"Those whom God hath joined
together let no man put asunder."
Then
shall the Minister speak unto the
company.
"FORASMUCH
as John and Jane have consented
together in holy wedlock, and have
witnessed the same before God and
this company, and thereto have given
and pledged their troth, each to
the other, and have declared the
same by giving and receiving a Ring,
and by joining hands; I pronounce
that they are Man and Wife, In the
Name of the Father, and of the Son,
and of the Holy Ghost. Amen."
The
Man and the Wife kneeling, the Minister
shall add this Blessing.
"GOD
the Father, God the Son, God the
Holy Ghost, bless, preserve, and
keep you; the Lord mercifully with
his favour look upon you, and fill
you with all spiritual benediction
and grace; that ye may so live together
in this life, that in the world
to come ye may have life everlasting.
Amen."
The
laws respecting Matrimony, whether
by
publishing
the Banns in Churches, or by License,
being different in the several States,
every Minister is left to the direction
of those laws, in everything that
regards the civil contract between
the parties.